Fresh Air

pinetop-sessionRemember as a kid when parents and teachers would encourage playing outside and getting some “fresh air?” While in some cases it might have been a tactic giving the adults a well-deserved break, the true value went deeper.

There was always a release-and-capture effect involved:

The antsy wiggles in the hard desk chairs, or the vacant stares toward the bright windows, were instantly erased with the first booming step through the recess exit. Released at last!

Upon return, a deeper breathing quieted the room a bit. The little faces sometimes glistened with sweat, showcasing new color on their rosy cheeks. Captured calm at last!

This effect is a brilliant tool in letting go of jumping thoughts, and calling forth a clearer mind. Classroom management of this sort prepares the soil for planting the learning seeds. It is essential for any meaningful growth at all.

So, why would that ever change for us as adults? I don’t think it does.

Hiking and walking have been instrumental not only to my survival as a person, but to my growth as a leader. I crave this time and respect the significance it brings me. There’s a certain clarity that comes to me through quiet time in nature. Such activity is not limited to the physical aspect alone. Being outdoors opens my thinking and invites meaningful contemplation. Knowing this fact has shaped the work I do and the message I share with my clients.

As part of my two-day leadership program, a hike or nature walk on the second day helps synthesize the material, emphasizing the real points for each leader. It is often the highlight of the participant experience. Since I’m based out of the Phoenix area, and my hikes are mostly in the desert or surrounding mountains, I call this segment, “Time in the Desert.”

The activities, approach, and path are all designed to ignite the individual’s best thinking. Customized lessons and prompts fill the “Time in the Desert” segment. After all, isn’t that what lives in a person’s head?

I’ve lead many groups through this quiet, personal experience and the result is always special and lasting. It leaves my new friends with their minds thinking and souls stirring.

A few months back, I was asked to speak to a group of senior business leaders in the White Mountains of Arizona. This team has led their company to national success, and they continue to climb in numbers as they grow their retail stores nationwide. These pictures are from our nature walk in Pinetop, Arizona.

At the end of the session, one leader said he heard so much in his head…so much worth listening to.

That’s the point! That’s MY point!!!

We occupy a loud, confusing world. Left unchallenged, it can be draining. Regularly, we must remove ourselves from the clutter and shift our focus inward, exploring the richness of our own thoughts. This is the personal—professional guidance meant for us specifically. This is the type of thinking that fuels good leadership.

I challenge you to chase quiet and gain clarity.

So, we may not be playing kickball on the playground anymore, but why not a hike? There’s fresh air intermingled with fresh thoughts waiting for you.


Contact me to schedule a 2017 “Time in the Desert” session with your team! I’ll even come to your “neck of the woods!”


Walking Barefoot

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Leadership potential lives in the soul.  It is not meant to be ignored.  Some people tune in and lead well.  Others grab hold of it, grow it, and conspicuously display it for the whole world to experience.

 

The distinction between good and great leaders is elusive.  I often contemplate the difference, and my conclusion almost always rests in struggle.  But, it is not just struggle.  It is mindset during and after the fight that matters.

 

Vibrant leaders have usually been through something, and most times, that something is big.  They execute brilliantly during tough moments and hold onto the lessons, the nuggets of excellence, gained from those times.  They endure, evolve, and emerge, keeping the residual grit on them.  This grit is true leadership made visible.  It is the differentiator.  And it comes from walking in the dirt, on the rocks.

 

I know this walk.  I am barefoot, walking in the dirt on the rocks, right now.  It has been with raw truth that I have lived my recent years, and with the same vulnerable spirit that I choose today to announce some news.

 

Since February 2012, my first surgery to remove a tumor, I have been under anesthesia ten times.  I currently have two additional surgeries pending.  While it isn’t a degree I recommend, my path has provided quite the education for me and my family.  We have been in a struggle with fear vs. peace, frustration vs. patience, worry vs. trust, anxiety vs. calm, shock vs. acceptance, upheaval vs. steadiness, faint-heartedness vs. fortitude, weariness vs. stamina.  And, our duality dance goes on and on.  I’ve been shown a lot about life and leadership through my lonely journey down long, empty hallways like this one.

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Positivity is my best approach, as I’ve learned to focus only on the light while moving forward.   I have much to share and am working on a more detailed way to do so.  My first book will be released Spring 2017. 

 

I am so excited to give my story to you, and the world, through my book.  Until then, I will continue to offer my leadership and life visions through my speaking engagements, leadership seminars, coaching sessions, blog www.connectiveliving.com/blog  and social media @connectiveliving—especially Instagram (my daily fave 😉).

 

I hope you follow me on my barefooted walk, since I am wishing you the benefit of my life’s schooling, without having to take the same tests.  I hope to inspire you as you lead your path…struggle…fight.

 

We all have one, and mindset is the weapon.

 

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